lazaefair: (Default)
[personal profile] lazaefair
The feels, man, the feels. This was me while talking to the doctor yesterday. We sprinted all over the place, conversationally, and I'm just impressed she kept track well enough to draw any sort of comprehensible conclusions of any kind.



Artist: Dani Donovan

Comm Layout

Jul. 8th, 2019 09:54 am
lazaefair: (Default)
[personal profile] lazaefair
Is there a particular reason why the comm layout is the way it is? I find it really distracting and hard to visually differentiate entries, sidebars, etc.

I'm not a particularly good admin, but I would be happy to at least try to find a decent layout and implement it if the current admin doesn't feel like dealing with that.
lazaefair: (Default)
[personal profile] lazaefair


I am not a morning person. That’s an understatement. Especially when I’m just rolling into my cubicle, bleary-eyed, usually about 10 minutes late (luckily my job is flexible on hours), not yet medicated. It was becoming a super stressful struggle, trying to remember to do all the little things to help me settle in for the day, on top of being immediately overwhelmed by all the tasks and projects that were, you know, my job.

It was getting to where I’d just sit myself down and aimlessly click around various software programs and sneak onto Tumblr/Dreamwidth while my shoulders got punishingly tense with this vague knowledge that I was supposed to be doing something...but what was it...can’t remember...okay back to stress-scrolling. This started the day off badly and affected my mood and cognitive ability for the rest of the day, even with medication.

So this morning routine checklist, broken down into every single last step, externalizes what I need to do and takes the pressure of trying to remember off of my brain. Yes, without the specific command to put my bags away, I’m liable to just leave my bulky backpack and purse and lunch bag on my desk or chair, getting in the way and contributing to the stress. So that’s why that’s on the list.

No, it’s not a magic bullet. Sometimes I still struggle to get through every step. But at least I don’t have to remember what they are. I just need to glance over to get back on track.
animeshon: (cheeky (orihime))
[personal profile] animeshon
I notice that there are almost no ADD/ADHD communities on Dreamwidth, despite a few being on Livejournal. In fact the only one I could find was [community profile] adhd_chicks which is all very well and good if you are a female like me, but what about the poor guys out there?

Anyway I was just diagnosed with ADD a couple of months ago and am on day 2 of a medication trial which I have been writing up in my personal journal and I thought that weekly summations might be of use to other people. The ramblings are mostly just about how I feel each day, if I've found any noticable side-effects and whether I've achieved much that day compared to previously.

The name of the community distraction is a reference to the Edward Hallowell books Driven to Distraction, Delivered from Distraction and the forth coming Answers to Distraction. When I was first exploring the posibility of having ADD my psychologist suggested reading Driven to Distraction, I actually borrowed Delivered from Distraction from a friend and was amazed at how perfectly the book described me. I found lot's of helpful little tips from the books and from Dr. Hallowell's website and distraction is such a perfect word for the world I live it. Luckily it was free to use.

Anyway only real rule here is be nice to each other. Be respectful of other people's opinions, just because you are pro/anti medication doesn't mean that you can condem someone for following a route you wouldn't take. Also any long posts (like this one!) please put under a cut to minimise annoyances :) Oh and tags are very helpful. I HATE trying to navigate through LJs and Dreamwidth communities without tags so please use them, I'll create a host for you to choose from but if nothing I've put suits then feel free to make your own.

Profile

Adults with ADD/ADHD

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags